21 Days for 25 Years - Day 16
- victoriousmother
- Aug 11, 2024
- 2 min read
Life has a way of throwing curveballs when you least expect it. Something always needs your attention, especially regarding family, work, or the endless to-do lists that pile up. So, when my family decided to take a 3-week vacation, I knew chaos might be waiting for us when we returned. But you know what? It was the best decision we've ever made.

He never tires of seeing the water. He'd never leave if someone could just keep bringing him food.
Our lives are so intertwined with daily routines, obligations, and the constant buzz of notifications. Taking time away allowed us to truly disconnect from all that noise and reconnect as a family. We laughed more, talked more, and spent quality time together without the usual distractions. It reminded me of what really matters—those precious moments with the people I love most.
Let's face it: drama doesn't take a vacation. Whether it's work-related issues, family squabbles, or just the general messiness of life, something will always be happening. But stepping away gave me a fresh perspective. The world didn't fall apart without me, and I realized that sometimes, it's okay to let go and trust that things will sort themselves out.

"Mom, we buried Malachi!"
Taking this time off allowed Bill and me to clear our minds and renew our sense of purpose. We were able to approach the drama happening back at home with more patience and understanding rather than being caught up in the whirlwind. The problems that seemed huge before our trip didn't seem so impossible now that we have a relaxed and refreshed mindset.
The memories we made during these past weeks have been priceless. Whether exploring new places, trying new activities, or simply enjoying lazy afternoons together, those experiences strengthened our bond as a family. We'll look back on these moments with fondness long after the drama has faded into the background.

"Mom! Look what we found floating in the jacuzzi!"
Taking this time away wasn't just about family—it was about self-care, too. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and forget to care for yourself. This break allowed me to recharge, both physically and mentally. I'm already feeling more centered and ready to handle whatever life throws at me, and we still have a few days left of our vacation.
The drama back home didn't disappear, but it didn't overshadow the incredible experience we had as a family. Taking this time away was a reminder that sometimes, stepping away is precisely what you need to gain clarity and appreciate the bigger picture. Life will always be waiting when you return, but you'll be better equipped to handle it with the memories and renewed energy you gained along the way.
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